I'm Shea Marie.
My little man is Jaden Allen. 1-26-14
His daddy is Darian. 11-13-12
Colorado living. Ag major.
I reblog shit that makes me smile.
All I wanna do is put on slut makeup and drink some fruity alcoholic beverages.
Don’t get me wrong, I love spending every day with our son but when I hear comments like
“I can’t give you money because we don’t have enough”
“Why don’t you go do what I do every day?”
First of all, I’d love to have my own income so I can pay the one bill that I have or take over bills that my parents so kindly take care of for me. Second of all, I’d love to have some adult interaction and talk to someone who can carry an actual conversation with me, I’d love to do your job but unfortunately I’m a small woman with small muscles so your physical labor is damn near impossible for me.
I never get a moment to myself, and if I do it’s to go pee for 2 seconds. Once he starts crawling I can kiss that goodbye. I take care of every house hold chore that you don’t want to do. I feed, bath, change, and clothe our son. OUR SON, if men are so serious about proving that the baby is half theirs why the hell don’t they do half the work? Women carry the baby in their bodies for 9 months then are expected to do everything for the next 18 plus years. Even if I were to work you wanna know who would still be doing house work and caring for the baby? Me. Because my job wouldn’t be physically laboring like his. Would I still be expected to have the laundry done and his piss cleaned off the toilet? You bet your sweet ass I would be.
This is why I need feminism